Holy Relationship Retreat
November 4-8, 2026 — Tulum Mexico
"I have done so many retreats, workshops and therapy, but I've never experienced anything as transformative as this." - Jacky
Break through inner blockages to attract, build, and sustain a conscious relationship
Imagine what it would feel like to be in a relationship where you feel deeply seen, cherished, emotionally safe, and fully met on all layers of your being.
Where conflict becomes a doorway to deeper intimacy instead of distance.
Where transparency replaces guessing.
Where love no longer feels like hard work, but like coming Home…
Whether you are calling in your life partner or longing to transform the relationship you're already in, this retreat is for those who are no longer willing to settle for relationships that leaves them disconnected, anxious, unseen, or constantly questioning their worth. It’s for those who are ready to break through their subconscious patterns, release inner blockages, and open their heart for a love that wakes them up to their deepest Self.
Join us this November in the sacred jungle of Mexico,
for a life-changing journey back to the Love you’ve never truly left.
What to Expect
Deep transformational sessions that guide you to the core of the subconscious patterns, blockages, fears, and protective strategies that are keeping you from remembering the Love you truly are
Voice Liberation sessions that bypass the thinking mind and help you access and release emotional wounds, false beliefs, and subconscious blockages that words alone cannot reach. (No singing experience is needed! Voice Liberation is not a singing class—it is a powerful healing modality that uses music and the expression of your authentic voice to facilitate deep transformation.)
Guidance through our Five Pillars of a Holy Relationship, giving you practical tools and profound insights to attract, build, and sustain a relationship that is rooted in purpose, emotional safety, true intimacy, trust, and spiritual awakening through joy instead of pain.
Evening integration sessions, combining gentle practices, integrative yin yoga, sound healing, and meditation to help you fully absorb the day's healing.
Morning and evening silence, allowing you to begin and end each day in stillness, reflection, and inner listening.
Spirit-led exercises, all intuitively guided according to what is most helpful for the group in each moment.
A beautiful balance of depth and joy. While this retreat invites you into profound healing, it is equally a celebration of life—with laughter, music, playfulness, heartfelt connection, and the joy that naturally arises as we release all that remember the Love we truly are.
Time immersed in nature, surrounded by the lush jungle of Mexico, with space to walk, rest, and reflect.
A Cenote Pool, with natural healing waters to cleanse the body, mind, and soul.
Delicious and organic meals, prepared with love and care for the land.
A safe and loving community, where you'll be deeply supported by us and surrounded by like-minded souls from around the world who, just like you, are ready to go on this transformational healing journey from fear to Love.
Testimonials:
This is NOT for people who:
Are looking for a luxury vacation rather than a transformational journey
Aren’t willing to look inward and release whatever is no longer serving them
Prefer to learn by taking notes, rather than somatic, transformational, and interactive exercises
Want to hold on to grievances and aren’t willing to forgive their past and everyone in it, including themselves
Are satisfied with repeating the same relationship patterns and aren't yet ready for a love that awakens them to their deepest Self
Schedule
Welcome dinner
Opening ceremony
Day 1 - Purpose
Day 2 - Transparency
Releasing all that no longer serves you
Clearing inner clutter ceremony
True empathy vs false empathy
Learning to listen with Spirit
The power of presence
Magical Cenote water ceremony
Forgiveness ceremony
How to heal the core of any issue you’re faced with
Releasing the past
Healing the inner child
Fire ceremony
Day 3 - Conflict Resolution
Day 4 - Divine Feminine & Masculine
Healing the feminine and masculine wounds within you
Healing chakra movement session
Final evening celebration with music and movement
Closing ceremony
Letting Love lead the way
Learning through joy instead of pain
Day 5 - Joyful Awakening
Sample Schedule
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We are silent in the morning up until our first session. This is the time to connect with your intention and open up your mind and heart for what’s to come.
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We will enjoy a delicious and healthy farm-to-table breakfast. Breakfast will be in silence, and can serve as a beautiful opportunity to practice presence and mindful eating.
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The morning sessions will tend to be a bit more intense and will invite you to get into the core of whatever wants to be released.
The sessions can take different forms, and can vary from Voice Liberation exercises in pairs, group work, writing exercises, forgiveness work, and more.
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Enjoy a delicious lunch. Destino Mío has its own organic garden, where most of the food comes from. Our diet will be rich in fresh vegetables and proteins.
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Take a nap at the pool, swim in one of the ancient old cenotes, get a massage or energy healing from Allan, or have a walk through the beautiful garden of Destino Mío.
This is your time to rest and integrate.
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At Destino Mío they don’t just cook, they make little pieces of heaven on a plate! Expect nurturing, healthy and farm-to-table dishes that are prepared with love and care by top gastronomy chefs.
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The evening sessions will be centred around integration and will conclude with a healing yin yoga session.
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Silence is an important way to allow all of the healing work to integrate. Take time to meditate, write, or go to sleep early.
Who We Are
We are Allan and Neda—founders of the Holy Relationship platform.
Through our retreats, workshops, and social media, we guide individuals and couples to attract, build, and sustain a conscious relationship.
We both know from experience how painful and dysfunctional relationships can be. But we also know that with the right tools and shared purpose, a relationship can become one of the most beautiful and powerful classrooms for healing, growth, and spiritual awakening.
Neda Boin is a spiritual teacher and Voice Liberator whose work is rooted in the non-dual teachings of A Course in Miracles. She has guided thousands of people around the world through her Voice Liberation sessions—a powerful method that uses the voice as a tool to access and release deep subconscious blockages.
For many years, Neda dreamed about offering relationship retreats and teach people how to have relationships that serve as a beautiful classroom for growth and spiritual healing.
The only problem was that she had not yet experienced a fully healthy relationship herself...
It wasn’t until she left a dysfunctional long-term relationship, a few years before meeting Allan, that she realised that if she wanted her future to be different from her past, she had work to do.
And so a deep healing journey unfolded where she started unraveling her relationship patterns, forgave her past, healed her heart, and became the love she had always been searching for.
Allan Carolina is a holistic physical therapist, Reiki Master, Yin Yoga teacher, and Kundalini healer with a great passion for guiding men into healthy, conscious masculinity, and supporting women in releasing whatever is blocking them to receive the love they truly deserve.
Allan’s childhood was marked by trauma, yet even at a very young age, he carried the profound awareness that his parents’ actions came from their own unresolved pain.
As he grew older, this awareness deepened into a strong curiosity to explore the depth of his own mind. As a teenager he would spend hours in meditation on his native island of Curaçao, often surrounded by eagles, contemplating life, healing, and truth.
Although he understood on a intellectual level that his parents were innocent and did the best that they could, his body still held the weight of unprocessed trauma he tried to outrun for many years.
It wasn’t until he came to a point in life where he seemingly had everything he thought he wanted, yet still felt a deep emptiness within, that he realized he could no longer escape his past.
What followed was a profound inner journey of healing and forgiveness — one that brought him to his knees in complete surrender to God, and to his purpose to guide men into embodied, healthy masculinity, and supporting women in remembering their inherent worth.
The moment Allan met Neda, he heard an inner whisper from God saying: “That’s her”. He knew he had found his queen, the woman he was meant to share his purpose with.
Not long after they got together, they began receiving the inner guidance to create the Holy Relationship platform—a platform that would serve thousands of people to learn how to use relationships as a pathway to remembering the love we truly are.
The Holy Relationship retreat is born out of the healing journey they both have gone through, and the amazing relationship they have built together after that.
Where we’ll stay
Our Retreat Space
Our retreat resort —Casa Arkaana— sits in the jungle of Chemuyil, Quintana Roo, Mexico, 20 minutes north of Tulum. Once you arrive at Casa Arkaana, the outside world stays outside. An extraordinairy place at the edge of the jungle, where the highway disappears into silence and the real Riviera Maya begins.
The temple, a ten-meter octagonal space built in the tradition of ancient Maya vernacular architecture, will be the sacred place where we will have our sessions.
Beneath the floor and within the walls, they’ve placed quartz, amethyst, and rose quartz during construction. Every side is open to the jungle through fine mosquito netting, so the space breathes with you while keeping you fully protected.
Hundreds of ceremonies, breathwork sessions, and somatic practices have been held within these walls and they will deeply support our inner journey to go from fear to Love.
Farm-to-table dining
Every meal is an act of care — colourful, abundant, and prepared with love. Sourced from local producers, seasonal markets, and the land when the seasons allow.
Expect nurturing, healthy and farm-to-table dishes that are prepared with love and care.
Casa Arkana has its own organic garden, where most of the food comes from.
Any dietary restrictions or allergies will be taken into account.
This retreat is alcohol- and drug-free.
Sleeping in the jungle
We will wake up with the song of birds, and go to sleep under a night sky full of stars.
We have three different sleeping options: Ensuite Verandas, Jungle Casitas, and Glamping Tents. More information on that below.
Every structure is bio-climatically designed with cross-ventilation, elevated ceilings, and natural materials that keep the inside cooler than the outside — year-round, day or night.
Rooms will be shared with a maximum of one other person.
Ensuite Veranda with private bathroom, early bird:
2 payments of €972,50* (around $1111,-) standard package
Or 2 payments of €1302,50* (around $1485) for the integration packageONE ROOM LEFT
Jungle Casita with shared bathroom early bird:
2 payments of €837,50* (around $955) standard package
Or 2 payments of €1167,50* (around $1331) for the integration package
Glamping Tent early bird:
2 payments of €725* (around $827) standard package
or 2 payments of €1055* (around $1203) for the integration package
Standard package includes:
Full retreat experience
1 one-on-one intake call
Accommodation, including bed linen and fresh towels
All breakfast, lunch and dinners as shown on the itinerary
Free fresh infused herbal water, tea, fruits, and snacks
Airport transfer to and from the resort
BONUS: Free life-long access to the online Voice Liberation program
BONUS: Free Holy Relationship gift bag
Integration package includes everything above plus:
Private bodywork healing session with Allan during the retreat
Embodied Awakening integration session with Allan after the retreat
One-on-one Voice Liberation session with Neda after the retreat
Costs not included:
Flights
Medical expenses
Any unforeseen accident, injury and/or damage to property
Travel insurance
*An extra 4% will be charged for people paying with credit card
Investment - €250 ($285) early bird discount until September 1st!
"I have spent thousands of dollars in therapy, and none of it got me anywhere close to the release that I got with you." - Kat
Ensuite Veranda with private bathroom
Jungle Casita with shared bathroom
Glamping tents with shared bathroom
In order to secure your spot for the retreat, we will do a 20 minute intake call with you to make sure we are a good fit for each other.
You’ll also be able to ask any questions you might have regarding the retreat.
Only sign the form if you are ready to commit to the retreat. We will be in touch with you shortly after to book an intake call.
Register for an intake call
Frequently Asked Questions
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No, this retreat is open to anyone who feels the inner calling to join. The majority of participants usually come by themselves, but couples are definitely also welcome. If you are in a relationship and would like to come without your partner that is also completely fine!
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No, not per se. Although it is very important that you have an open and willing mind to do the work. This retreat is not a relaxing spa, and the sessions will very likely take you outside of your comfort zone.
If you are currently mentally unstable, you might benefit more from a one-on-one trajectory before feeling grounded and steady enough to participate. If there are any doubts about this, we can discuss it during the intake call. -
There will be a maximum of 18 participants joining this retreat
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November is considered to be the ideal time to travel to this area, as it is much less humid than the summer times. It will still be warm during the day, with temperatures going up to a maximum of 27°C–30°C (81°F–86°F). In the night, it very much cools off to about 18°C – 69°F.
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Yes, you can pay with any currency. The webshop will show euro’s, but your bank will automatically calculate the amount in dollars. To see the current dollar to euro exchange rate, click here.
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We will pick you up from Cancun Airport on the day of the retreat. It is advised to make sure your plane lands anywhere between 11am and 2pm
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Cancun Airport Mexico
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This retreat is non refundable. If we can find someone to take your spot, you may use your payment as credit for a following retreat.
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Most international visitors do not need a visa to enter Mexico for tourism. Travelers from certain countries may require a visa unless they already hold a valid U.S., Canadian, Schengen, UK, or Japanese visa. We recommend checking requirements based on your passport.